Nancy Militello

Nancy J. Militello (O'Leary)

Tuesday, February 13th, 1934 - Wednesday, September 23rd, 2020
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Militello, Nancy J. (O’Leary)
Rochester: Wednesday, September 23, 2020, at age 86. Predeceased by her husband, Charles J. Militello; parents, Harold and Eileen O’Leary; brother, Robert O’Leary; sister, Mary VanDerMaas. She is survived by loving companion, Jim Gallagher; children, Russ (Margaret) Militello, David Militello, James (Laurie) Militello, Cindy (Tony) Drohan-Casciano; 11 grandchildren; 12 great grandchildren; many nieces and nephews.
Friends may call SUNDAY from 2-5PM at the DiPonzio Funeral Home, Inc., 219 Spencerport Rd., Gates. On Monday, September 28, all are invited to attend her Funeral Mass at 9:30AM at St. Theodore’s Church, 168 Spencerport Rd. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be directed to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 in her memory.
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  • Visitation

    Sunday, September 27th, 2020 | 2:00pm - 5:00pm
    Sunday, September 27th, 2020 2:00pm - 5:00pm
    DiPonzio Funeral Home, Inc.
    219 Spencerport Rd.
    ROCHESTER, NY 14606
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  • Service

    Monday, September 28th, 2020 | 9:30am
    Monday, September 28th, 2020 9:30am
    St. Theodore's Church
    168 Spencerport Road
    ROCHESTER, NY 14606
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    Father Fred Asuming
  • Interment

    Holy Sepulchre Cemetery
    2461 Lake Avenue
    ROCHESTER, NY 14612
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    Section: Queen of Heaven Lot 577S


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Shawn & Terasa Reisman

Posted at 12:02pm
Our prayers that Gods unfailing love and peace comfort you all during this time. We love you all dearly!
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Ann and Franklin DiBiase

Posted at 05:25pm
We so loved Nancy , with her beautiful smile and warm friendliness. May she have eternal peace. We are sorry for your loss. With love
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Posted at 09:46am
Dear Russ and family, Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
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